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Pelvises I Have Known and Loved

-by Gloria Lemay

What if there were no pelvis? What if it was as insignificant to how a child is born as how big is the nose on the mother's face? After over twenty years of watching birth, that is what I have come to.

Pelvises open at the three stretch points- the symphysis pubis and the two sacroiliac joints. Those points are full of relaxing hormones- the pelvis literally begins falling apart at about 34 weeks of pregnancy. In addition to this mobile, loose, stretchy pelvis, Nature has given human beings the added bonus of having a moldable, pliable, shrinkable baby head: like a steamer tray for a cooking pot has folding plates that adjust it to any size pot, the four overlapping bones that form the infant's skull will adjust to fit the mother's body.

Every woman who is alive today is the result of millions of years of natural selection. Today's women are the end of evolution- we are the ones with the bones that made it all the way here. With the exception of the last thirty years, we almost all go back through our maternal lineage generation after generation having smooth, normal vaginal births. Prior to thirty years ago, major problems in large groups were always attributable to maternal malnutrition (starvation) or sepsis in hospitals.

Twenty years ago, physicians were known to tell women that the reason they had a cesarean was that the child's head was just too big for the size of the pelvis. The trouble began when these same women would stay at home for their next child's birth and give birth to a bigger baby through that same pelvis. This became very embarrassing for doctors, and it curtailed this reason being put forward by them as justification for doing cesareans. What replaced this reason was the post-cesarean statement "Well, it's a good thing we did the cesarean because the cord was twice around the baby's neck". This is what I've heard a lot of in the past ten years. Doctors have to have a very good reason for every operation because the family will have such a dreadful time with that new baby and mother when they get home that, without a convincing reason, the fathers would be on the warpath. Just imagine if the doctor said honestly, "Well, Joe, this was one of those times when we jumped the gun- there was actually not a thing wrong with either your baby or your wife, in hindsight. I'm sorry she'll have a six week recovery to go through for nothing." Aat least 15% of cesareans are unnecessary but the parents are never told. There is a conspiracy amongst the hospital staff to keep this information from families for obvious reasons.

In a similar vein, I find it interesting that doctors are now advocating discontinuing the use of the electronic fetal monitor. This is something that natural birth advocates have campaigned hard for and have not been able to accomplish in the past twenty years. The natural-types were concerned about possible harm to the baby from the Doppler ultrasound radiation and discomfort for the mother from the two tight belts around her belly. Now the doctors have joined the campaign to rid maternity wards of these expensive pieces of technology. Why, you ask? Because it has just dawned on the doctors that the very fetal heart strip of paper that they thought proved how careful and conscientious they were AND which they thought was their protection in court has actually been their worst enemy in a court of law. A good lawyer can take any piece of "evidence" and find an expert to interpret it to his own ends. After a baby dies or is damaged, the hindsight people come in and go over these strips and the doctors are left with huge legal settlements to make. What the literature indicates now is that when a nurse with a stethoscope listens to the "real" heartbeat through a fetoscope (not the bounced back and recorded beat shown on a monitor readout) the cesarean rate goes down by 50% with no increase in fetal mortality rates.

Of course, I am in favor of the abolition of electronic fetal monitoring altogether- but it would be far more uplifting if this was being done for some sort of health improvement and not just more ways for professionals to cover butt in court.

Now let's get back to pelvises I have known and loved. When I was a keen beginner midwife, I took many workshops in which I measured the pelvises of my classmates. Bi-spinous diameters, sacral promontories, narrow arches- all very important and serious. Gynecoid, android, anthropoid and the dreaded platypelloid all had to be measured, assessed and agonized over. I worried that baby's would get "hung up" on spikes and bone spurs that could appear out of nowhere, according to the folklore. Then, one day, I heard the head of Obstetrics at our local hospital say, "The best pelvimeter is the baby's head". In other words, a head passing through the pelvis would tell you more about the size of it than all the calipers and X-rays in the world. He did not advocate taking pelvic measurements at all. Of course, doing pelvimetry in early pregnancy before the hormones have started relaxing the pelvis is ridiculous.

One of the midwife "tricks" that we were taught was to ask the mother's shoe size. If the mother wore size 5 or more shoes, the theory went that her pelvis would be ample. Well, 98% of women take over size 5 shoes so this was a good theory that gave me confidence in women's bodies for a number of years.

Then I had a client who came to me at eight months pregnant seeking a home waterbirth. She had, up until that time, been under the care of a hospital nurse-midwifery practice. She was Greek and loved doing gymnastics. Her eighteen year-old body glowed with good health and I felt lucky to have her in my practise until I asked the shoe size question. She took size 2 shoes. She had to buy her shoes in Chinatown to get them small enough- oh dear. It briefly made me think that perhaps this was someone that I should really refresh my rusting pelvimetry skills with, but then I reconsidered. I would not lay this small pelvis trip on her. I would be vigilant at her birth and act if the birth seemed obstructed in an unusual way but I would not make it a self-fulfilling prophecy. She gave birth to a seven pound girl and only pushed about twelve times. She gave birth in a water tub sitting on the lap of her young lover and the scene reminded me of "Blue Lagoon" with Brooke Shields- it was so sexy. So, that pelvis ended the shoe size theory forever.

Another pelvis that came my way a few years ago stands out in my mind. This young woman had had a cesarean for her first childbirth experience. She had been induced and it sounded like the usual cascade of interventions. When she was being stitched up after the surgery, her husband said to her "Never mind, Carol, next baby you can have vaginally." The surgeon made the comment back to him "Not unless she has a two pound baby". When I met her, she was having mild, early birth sensations. Her doula had called me to consult on her birth. She had a somewhat unusual shape of body. She was only about 5'1" tall and most of that was legs. Her pregnant belly looked huge because it just went forward- she had very little space between the crest of her hip and her rib cage.

Luckily, her own mother was present in the house when I first arrived there. I took her into the kitchen and asked her about her own birth experiences. She'd had her first baby vaginally. With her second, there had been a malpresentation so she had a cesarean. Since the grandmother had the same body-type as her daughter, I was heartened by the fact that she had given birth to one baby vaginally, at least. Again, this woman dilated in the water tub. It was a planned hospital birth, so at advanced dilation they moved by car to the hospital. She was pushing when she got there and proceeded to birth a seven pound girl. She used a squatting bar and was thrilled with her completely spontaneous birth experience. I asked her to write to the surgeon who had made the remark that she couldn't birth a baby over two pounds and let him know that this unscientific, unkind remark had caused her much unneeded worry.

Another group of pelvises that inspire me are the ones of the pygmy women of Africa. I have an article in my files by an anthropologist who reports that these women have a height of 4', on average. The average weight of their infants is eight pounds! This is like a woman 5'6" giving birth to a fourteen pound baby in relative terms. The custom in their villages is that the woman stays alone in her hut for birth until her membranes rupture. At that time, she strolls through the village and finds her midwives. The midwives and the woman hold hands and sing as they walk down to the river. At the edge of the river is a flat, well worn rock on which all the babies are born. The two midwives squat at the mother's side while she pushes her baby out. One midwife scoops up river water to splash on the newborn to stimulate the first breath. After the placenta is birthed the other midwife finds a narrow place in the cord and chews it to separate the infant. Then, the three walk back to join the people. This article has been such a teaching and inspiration for me.

That's the bottom line on pelvises- they don't exist in real midwifery. Any baby can slide through any pelvis with a powerful uterus pistoning down on him/her.

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